Finding Yourself from the voice within

Life at times can consume you with feelings & thoughts that were out of your control, feelings given to you or shown to you whist growing up. 
Who are you when you are angry, sad, lonely, confused or fearful, who's voice do you really hear as them words or actions explode from you.
if you take the time to listen you will hear the voice of your past, family members, grandparents, aunts, uncles, siblings, lovers, husbands, wives, the words the actions taking over your unconscious.
so take some time to find yourself, find the voice from within that is You, that speaks to you lovingly & ever so gently, for that is the voice to pay attention to, listen to that loving voice, be kind to yourself, love yourself, then you can love other without conflict from the past.